Overview
please respond to Paulina.
Hello Class
These questions are fun and will be asking my own friends and partner.
This question can go in so many ways and I doubt there is a right or wrong answer but it is a personal preference. I personally believe in marriage only if hard conversation can be occur, being vulnerable to each other, creating a safe place to sleep, speak thoughts, fears, ideas, able to ask your person of topics such as... this is what I need, where did I fail this week or month and how can we improve. I do think for myself, creating a life with one person is beautiful and hard work, I rather marry my partner and choose them over a new excitement, randond dates, starting all over in getting to know someone and which mask is real or false, grow and challenge myself and each other. It is making a strong bond and a spiritual bond. I do not mind co-habitation but perhaps in the way the world is moving, I want to feel intune and organically connected to one person who can see all sides of me and accept me as I shall do for them. Co-habitation can feel for me as a challenge of how is my time valuable towards them, where does my importance lay with them, how emotionally loyal to me and so on. I respect anyone choice of living as long as mine is being respected.
I will say this, if a person is causing mental stress, is abusive, I hope you find the help to get out and seek a new path for yourself. There are plenty of good people in this world.